because no one’s perfect but Harry Styles gets pretty damn close. 

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So basically this is just a compilation of instances where Harry’s a fucking great human being and I just needed to get it out there because he’s been kind of dragged through the media recently and it’s disgusting because he tries so hard to be a good person? And also because I love him. 

Part I. He’s so respectful towards women I kind of want to cry?

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2. nhf treating girls like commodities

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([video] ^ Jenny pointed out that Harry actually says “the worst thing”, which makes him sound even more offended tbh)

3. he does not 

Interviewer: “Do you do like the girl…like, sometimes girls will call a guy if they’re in a bar or something, they’ll go ‘OK that guy’s cute, he’s mine? Is there like a rule?”

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4. like to objectify

Interview with Douchebag Ryan Seacrest:

Douchebag Ryan Seacrest: Would you ever consider females sport?

Harry Styles: [dead serious] None of us would ever consider females sport. I think it’s degrading and objectifying women.

5. women

Alan Carr: ”Now, what’s it like at your bachelor pad? I mean, I hear you’ve had to fit a turnstile on the door cos there are so many girls coming in. Is this true? I’ve heard it’s like a delicatessen — fanny #5, please!”

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(Let’s contrast ^ with a quote from a member of another British boyband that shall remain nameless: “I slept with more girls in America in one month than I have for a whole year in the UK. The boys who are not single help me, they make way for me. And Americans’ boobs are lovely.”)

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8. nhf fat-shaming or gross patriarchal conceptions of society

Capital FM Interview:

Interviewer: What would you guys do if a large fan was to want a piggyback?

Harry: Give ‘em a piggyback.

Interviewer: It’s a weird question…

Liam: But a lot of fans these days actually ask us to go on their backs.

Harry: Yeah, we’ve thought that.

Liam: Surely the man should be carrying the woman.

[Harry’s reaction]:

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10. not grossed out by periods! (ty xnoel)

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Part II. Progressive ideas about sex!

1. Sugarscape

Re: safe sex

"To get lazy and say you’ll be fine is selfish," he said.

"I’d never risk not wearing a condom - it’s too much of a risk. You can say it’ll never happen to you but I bet most people it happens to say that. If you’re not ready for a child, then don’t risk it."

2. From feministharrystyles (not proven but lbr it’s believable):

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3. When asked about Porn in GQ:

Louis: I find the whole porn thing quite…
Liam: Derogatory?
Niall: Objectifying?
Harry: I think it’s derogatory.
Liam: It can be a bad influence on youngsters…
Louis: …but sometimes it’s great.
Harry: Sometimes it’s amazing!

(because some porn is degrading and some porn is gr8 and the fact that an 18 (17 at the time) yr old boy seems to GET that is just so fucking cool)

Part III: He’s supportive of the LGBT community in a really subtle, no-need-to-make-a-big-fuss-about-it-because-to-him-it’s-the-most-natural-thing-in-the-world kind of way.

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2. chills at gay bars

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3. wears supportive t-shirts around town like it’s nbd

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Part IV: Fuck yeah gender neutral pronouns!

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2., 3., 4., 5. [gifs by christy]

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Part V. In which he shits all over traditional conceptions of “masculinity”

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2. This interview tbh:

re: crying in the documentary

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Harry: “I think we’re just normal teenage boys, we’re not like robots. So if you’re to say something not very nice to someone, it affects them. I think it just show that that happens to us too; it’s not like we can just brush it off, you know?”

3. Harry on “Call or Delete”:

sparknotes version: “i was reading a magazine today, and I saw this article at the back and it was talking about men wearing tights, and i was wondering that when you get me dressed it was really uncomfortable so i was wearing them under my jeans, so i was wondering if you could get me some decent ones, or some crotchless ones, cause like ive been wearing my sisters ones. the thing is, i don’t know if im ready to bring them out so i was wondering if i could just keep them under my jeans. do you think they have gold ones” [transcribed by someone else, idk the original poster sry :()

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(^ no but seriously the way he reacts to this, like “yep next question” is basically his attitude towards his relationships with all the guys in his life and it’s so great and devoid of any gross “no homo"s and ugh he’s the best)

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Part VI. Miscellaneous. (i.e. where I give up on any sort of organization and just dump a bunch of instances where he’s awesome/inspirational/nice/adorable as fuck on you) 

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picking up some lady’s purse even though he was being mobbed by paps :’)

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saving a little girl from getting crushed by the crowd

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(^ video of harry: x, video of girl getting lifted out of the crowd (bottom left) : x)

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harry/fans vs. security

sneakin’ a hug

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cockblocked

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cockblocked again

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THE END.

(Not pictured: Harry falling out of clubs with a multitude of girls, Harry entering hotels with girls, Harry spending other-than-platonic time with married women, Harry picking out girls from the audience to sleep with after the concert, Harry obsessing over older women, etc etc etc.)

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